tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post2109731012785197892..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: scatteredgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-60850915697967271902013-12-17T10:27:11.142-05:002013-12-17T10:27:11.142-05:00gg,
sorry, didn't mean to imply that you were ...gg,<br />sorry, didn't mean to imply that you were still all stary-eyed. I've been reading here long enough to know better!<br />Just took Me years past the realization to actually accept it.<br /><br />I totally get the escapism and nourishing bit! Times when it takes an overall vanilla form sometimes feel like they are foreverrrrrr....Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-36873170997691757152013-12-17T08:15:41.991-05:002013-12-17T08:15:41.991-05:00mc kitten,
yes - out of sync - and add in outside ...mc kitten,<br />yes - out of sync - and add in outside stressors and obligations and everything else - I suppose it's incredible that the stars ever do align. I just count on knowing that the wheel keeps turning and will come back around again. <br />greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-66770766184339990982013-12-17T08:12:06.479-05:002013-12-17T08:12:06.479-05:00sofia,
It feels like it lasts forever - I've b...sofia,<br />It feels like it lasts forever - I've been here before - the point of having gone far enough past the point of missing it to have it feel like a too distant memory - it makes me sad, resigned, a little hopeless maybe - but it has always come back - not always entirely smoothly - but it has. The better thing now is that i know this - i'm not in a panic like i used to get. It helps - a little - for me to remind myself that it is up to him, it is meant to meet his needs not mine - though, honestly - there is certainly a point that both person's needs must be met. I hope things turn for you two soon. greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-70393519906047658872013-12-17T08:06:52.960-05:002013-12-17T08:06:52.960-05:00lil,
I'm not even starry-eyed anymore - i gras...lil,<br />I'm not even starry-eyed anymore - i grasp it - but there is definitely an escapism to it - the kinky, sexy, fun, challenging, blatantly submissive stuff keeps me going, nourishes us... I know the other stuff has to happen and is actually what is really important - but.....greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-59073259356969752982013-12-16T08:41:27.002-05:002013-12-16T08:41:27.002-05:00"many of the things that are important to him..."many of the things that are important to him are not at all sexy, subversive, kinky, or even remotely titillating"<br /><br />*sigh* yes. And you know, often that's fine - I adore doing little loving things for him that have nothing to do with kink or sex. But sometimes... I suppose, it's like those awful times when our libidos are out of step with each others. Sometime's it's our kinks, too. *bigger sigh*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-59326516201421624652013-12-14T19:40:34.972-05:002013-12-14T19:40:34.972-05:00Damn it. Maybe that's where we are right now ...Damn it. Maybe that's where we are right now and I need to quit feeling sad about it?<br /><br />But what if it never changes? What if this is it? I mean, I'd just have to deal with it, I get that, but - but - i would like to have kinky sex and all that again someday... what if it never happens? Do you worry about that?<br /><br />sofiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-91558096161021792013-12-14T11:04:00.620-05:002013-12-14T11:04:00.620-05:00"many of the things that are important to him..."many of the things that are important to him are not at all sexy, subversive, kinky, or even remotely titillating"<br />Yep, totally get that. Was a really hard concept to grasp when I was still all starry-eyed. <br />Sometimes though, I think accepting that is very much what ttwd is about (for me anyways). Perhaps at times, the greatest submission is the one that takes on vanilla form...<br />Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.com