tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post2519013370284195709..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: What BDSM does for me_DSgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-13605503504662401452010-01-10T19:32:11.493-05:002010-01-10T19:32:11.493-05:00Men? I think their brains are tied to their... umm...Men? I think their brains are tied to their... ummm... you know what? I'm gonna leave that one alone. LOL<br /><br />spiritedturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-79834052262822259472010-01-10T11:26:34.356-05:002010-01-10T11:26:34.356-05:00Mouse, Thanks. So why don't more people know ...Mouse, Thanks. So why don't more people know about this? Why didn't we know about it all along? <br /><br />Mamacrow - it is damn good. (and yea - that may be it.)<br /><br />JZ, WOW - that is exactly what I feel! - but i never thought to put those words to it, but that is it exactly. Thank you so much.<br /><br />Ally,<br />And the best part of it is that this is one feeling that my brain is happy to just feel, without any other noise.<br /><br />Spirited,<br />Just goes to show how tied our bodies are to our brains - i wonder if it's the same for men - that tie?greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-87563244649910532092010-01-09T21:56:10.776-05:002010-01-09T21:56:10.776-05:00I was the same way with sex... when I was able to ...I was the same way with sex... when I was able to say "no" I just had no interest... but when he took over that was it. I went through a period of being out of control horny too... I think that's pretty normal. <br /><br />spiritedturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-28812011211591508192010-01-09T21:01:55.131-05:002010-01-09T21:01:55.131-05:00greengirl - I relate so much to a lot of what you ...greengirl - I relate so much to a lot of what you said, especially in your submission section. I think you describe that feeling very well - quietly nervous and drawn into yourself -Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-516785361967490202010-01-09T17:28:47.474-05:002010-01-09T17:28:47.474-05:00Yeah, those positive feedback loops kind of get yo...Yeah, those positive feedback loops kind of get you, don't they? Sort of like, "hey! Why haven't we been doing this all along?"<br /><br />I also related to how you say you enjoy just leaning into him. Those aren't mere hugs, they're offerings. And when he accepts through the simple gesture of wrapping you in his arms, you can just feel the quiet settle deep into your soul. ... *sigh* ...Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-76055539375087620082010-01-09T17:04:51.743-05:002010-01-09T17:04:51.743-05:00' I feel a bit nervous, but a quiet nervousnes...' I feel a bit nervous, but a quiet nervousness, not an idgity nervous energy. It's a bit like a first date or first kiss feeling, except this is my husband, from 15 plus years.'<br /><br />me too - good isn't it!<br /><br />(btw, thanks for your message via Orlando. I do have two blogs, one open one not, so maybe that was the glich? not sure, can't find anything my end...)mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-69758924377732285732010-01-09T14:43:47.607-05:002010-01-09T14:43:47.607-05:00Very well said sweetie. All of it. I think as fa...Very well said sweetie. All of it. I think as far the sexual submission and being horny is that you're not in that drivers seat anymore. He is. He decides when, where and how. Just thinking about it can be very arousing for both of you. <br /><br />For him on probably on the "claiming" side of things but for you, it's just as deep.<br /><br />hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11667539092853565037noreply@blogger.com