tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post2879420847261301935..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: just offgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-14295206763544381652012-01-05T07:11:55.594-05:002012-01-05T07:11:55.594-05:00Sara,
Thank you. We've started the process. ...Sara,<br />Thank you. We've started the process. And i'm working on learning how to talk to hem better.<br /><br />Aisha,<br />I think you are right - our innate way of dealing with things is different, and that is also changing and evolving for both of us - so i suppose bumps are inevitable. I also think you're right that this will help us in the end. Thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-88231667202750933222012-01-05T05:44:22.030-05:002012-01-05T05:44:22.030-05:00Yep, i'm late commenting too - have been here ...Yep, i'm late commenting too - have been here reading the post a couple of times, wanted to comment, but didn't know what I wanted to say.<br /><br />I find myself thinking about the post you did recently about your different styles of looking at things, how you approach them differently. Don't know if that's a factor here, bur can't help wondering.<br /><br />For what it's worth, i'm confident this is just one more piece of your journey together, and that the resolution will be helpful...<br /><br />hugs,<br /><br />aishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-78574117326928613852012-01-04T08:29:32.198-05:002012-01-04T08:29:32.198-05:00I'm late commenting, but I wanted to say I'...I'm late commenting, but I wanted to say I'm sorry you're struggling...we all go thrugh it from time to time and it always hurts. I agree...TALK to him...tell him how you feel. if he's in charge and it takes 2 to tango, then he needs to be handed the data on how you feel. Feel better! SaraSarahttp://findingsara.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-20474078561032906312012-01-04T08:05:52.918-05:002012-01-04T08:05:52.918-05:00lil,
thank you - that's a lot in fact.
K,
I d...lil,<br />thank you - that's a lot in fact.<br /><br />K,<br />I do think it is changes in both of us, in "us" and just in the world around us. Thanks. <br /><br />DY,<br />I know there aren't ups without downs, and no growth without change. thank you.<br /><br />SBF,<br />Thank you. I appreciate it.<br /><br />SFP,<br />We have started talking - and things are improving slowly - he is gone for awhile - and i'm not sure if that will be good, or bad, or maybe a bit of both. hopefully the distance will let each of us figure ourselves out a bit. Thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-45855554501259605872012-01-03T21:04:44.121-05:002012-01-03T21:04:44.121-05:00I rarely comment -- but often lurk here -- gg -- m...I rarely comment -- but often lurk here -- gg -- maybe you need to just ask him for his help.<br /><br />"Babe -- I feel like I'm out of sync with you and I hate it....can we take a time out?"<br /><br />sigh<br /><br />easier said than done<br /><br />how about "hugs"<br /><br />sfpstrivingforpeacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13985424060354882831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-70957341077596963982012-01-03T17:22:46.498-05:002012-01-03T17:22:46.498-05:00I hope you guys are able to work through these iss...I hope you guys are able to work through these issues. <br />hugs & smiles<br />butterflyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-76013008989707646332012-01-03T14:21:59.452-05:002012-01-03T14:21:59.452-05:00I feel your frustration really I do. All I can say...I feel your frustration really I do. All I can say is that things have a habit of sync-ing themselves, so roll on that well-oiled, highly tuned machine!!<br /><br />Best of luck.<br /><br />DY xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-40353872083803236662012-01-03T11:38:30.120-05:002012-01-03T11:38:30.120-05:00Great metaphor..it's tough to examine a relati...Great metaphor..it's tough to examine a relationship while daily life is needing our attention. Could it be changes you are both going through, in terms of needs and expectations.. Hope you guys find some time to slow down and sort things out. I know it's not easy:/ KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08961868034831709731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-11935653807175994262012-01-03T10:41:52.686-05:002012-01-03T10:41:52.686-05:00I seem to recently have lost my ability to make mu...I seem to recently have lost my ability to make much sense so all I got is hugs. <br />And I hope your machine is running smoothly again.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.com