tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post3028503832549800967..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: This is where it gets hardgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-28153250324178632742010-07-02T14:45:05.346-04:002010-07-02T14:45:05.346-04:00The deeper you get into it, often it gets more and...The deeper you get into it, often it gets more and more difficult as you peel back the layers of the onion.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943867226010869367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-70152953687700672492010-06-12T18:19:00.120-04:002010-06-12T18:19:00.120-04:00CD,
I think that, typically,things that are gained...CD,<br />I think that, typically,things that are gained cheaply don't have much value. This is a good example. You're right though - hte love is where it starts and what allows it to happen.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-54120065539400907172010-06-12T16:03:30.371-04:002010-06-12T16:03:30.371-04:00Knowing each other differently and more deeply,,,
...Knowing each other differently and more deeply,,,<br />Starting from a place of love, the choices made allow you to move forward into uncharted areas despite uncertainty and even fear. I am not sure that many of us understand the sacrifice, the price of the closeness we crave. Like being exposed to the searing face of the sun up close it seems,,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-20017445084918701312010-06-12T12:04:50.505-04:002010-06-12T12:04:50.505-04:00Elysia,
That is such a nice way of putting it - la...Elysia,<br />That is such a nice way of putting it - last week was a week of paying the upfront costs for the joy and connection - but we are coming around.<br /><br />DV,<br />It is more than I could have imagnined - both in the difficulty and the rewards. It's a whole new world.<br /><br />Janet,<br />What a nice compliment, especially because I consider your writing to be all of those things. Things are better now - he was out fo town which always makes these thigns more difficult. He is back now adn we are able to work through the issues and the feelings.<br /><br />JZ,<br />An incredible important point you make - thank you for pointing out that which i should really remember.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-21071658021967193452010-06-11T18:14:37.754-04:002010-06-11T18:14:37.754-04:00While I sometimes find that deep connection uncomf...While I sometimes find that deep connection uncomfortable, it's also a huge relief. Because they're that deep and they're still there. <br />Not running away, <br />not pulling back, <br /><i>there</i>.<br /><br />That's something you don't trade for the world.Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-66221554275454752942010-06-11T12:51:05.734-04:002010-06-11T12:51:05.734-04:00"The ends are well worth it, but the cost is ..."The ends are well worth it, but the cost is not negligible."<br />Such a completely open and honest statement. One that really touches at the core of TTWD. The inner battle that rages within us trying to find our way in a D/s relationship is very real and very powerful. All I can offer is the hope that the storm will rage on yet the intensity will lessen to a much calmer setting.<br /><br />When you reach this place it is an incredible feeling. But it is a feeling that needs to be constantly maintained and worked with by both of you. <br /><br />I appreciate the honesty of your blog. It doesn't candy coat TTWD for those out there that maybe wondering about how this lifestyle works. Keep up the awesome blogging and just "let go" when you can, the rest will fall into place.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05584625336930121503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-46053174701575176282010-06-11T09:44:36.730-04:002010-06-11T09:44:36.730-04:00Very nice post with great points. You are seeing ...Very nice post with great points. You are seeing how a true D/s relationship is and can be much more involved and intense than a vanilla one. Having to show every inch of your inner self can be hard, as it makes you very vulnerable. Yet, the rewards can be tremendous. I'm happy to see that this is working so well for you both, and that is has been so natural.<br /><br />DVDauntlessVitalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10351897046636302746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-17794572468700837792010-06-11T09:11:12.302-04:002010-06-11T09:11:12.302-04:00There is no better mirror with which to see our tr...There is no better mirror with which to see our true reflection, then from the one who knows and loves us best.<br />I'm so happy for your joy and better connection!Elysiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15284256494178026716noreply@blogger.com