tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post331171458204778084..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: why is sex so important anyhow?greengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-42819242004407798982012-11-29T06:31:20.549-05:002012-11-29T06:31:20.549-05:00Well - yes - yes it was very un-soccer-mom-ish...D...Well - yes - yes it was very un-soccer-mom-ish...Don't get me started. I always cross my fingers that no one is sitting on the bleacher directly above him when i hit send on any of those. I guess i learn the important stuff eventually - thank yougreengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-33732300175835445062012-11-28T15:26:10.116-05:002012-11-28T15:26:10.116-05:00That was a very unsoccer mom like text. And reall...That was a very unsoccer mom like text. And really, what kind of a person wears cum to the grocery store!! (Sorry, my inner prude voice just came out.giggles giggles - and I'll admit, I've worn it to family get togethers. )<br /><br />This really is a wonderful post Greengirl, and one I very much needed to read! Sex is important and it is all too easy to let it slip to not as high of a priority as it should be. Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291162887330995250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-4741068290879681782012-11-27T08:18:16.293-05:002012-11-27T08:18:16.293-05:00Bleuame,
Thank you. It really is all those things...Bleuame,<br />Thank you. It really is all those things. I like that term - grounding.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-72747544337659608552012-11-27T08:17:07.089-05:002012-11-27T08:17:07.089-05:00aisha,
Thank you. I guess i hadn't thought ab...aisha,<br />Thank you. I guess i hadn't thought about all the ruminating as being useful - more like just inevitable for me. It does give Him an idea of what's in my head - and i know that is good. greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-25271655165605716532012-11-27T08:14:42.462-05:002012-11-27T08:14:42.462-05:00Irishey,
Welcome. The - dysfunction - for want of...Irishey,<br />Welcome. The - dysfunction - for want of a better word - around sex was how and why this all began for us. Maybe that makes it more center stage than it might be for other people - i don't know. For us it really is key though. Thank you for stopping by. greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-86415266495854567582012-11-26T12:13:04.095-05:002012-11-26T12:13:04.095-05:00GG: Lovely post.
The connecting throug...GG: Lovely post. <br /> The connecting through sex, allows us to re-connect time and time again, its like a coming together, a grounding (at least I think so)and I love your observations on how it filters through to the rest of our relationships. Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-87284628985273997742012-11-26T07:50:31.505-05:002012-11-26T07:50:31.505-05:00Beautifully written. i so agree.
And i think tha...Beautifully written. i so agree.<br /><br />And i think that the navel-gazing afterwards, the ability to put words to it and post about, is part of the process that feeds it.<br /><br />aishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-2166768089512158642012-11-26T02:36:39.195-05:002012-11-26T02:36:39.195-05:00Hi, GG. First time commenting here. I like how you...Hi, GG. First time commenting here. I like how you described your sexual connection having direct impact on how attuned you are to each other. I, too, never understood the sexual bartering, but I do know that lack of a sex in a relationship, or lack of feeling a sexual connection whether you're having sex or not, can kill it.<br /><br />IrisheyIrisheyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12270910306787125881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-53975852968439468962012-11-25T21:04:03.673-05:002012-11-25T21:04:03.673-05:00Kitty,
I didn't think abotu the title being po...Kitty,<br />I didn't think abotu the title being possible read the opposite way - but you're right - it can go either way. I guess it didnt ever occur to me to think about why not sex?!? Thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-27283468427307548842012-11-25T21:02:46.572-05:002012-11-25T21:02:46.572-05:00faithful,
i like the big reminders too - but soemt...faithful,<br />i like the big reminders too - but soemtimes subtle is all that is possible.<br />thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-72951586792887247242012-11-25T21:01:52.162-05:002012-11-25T21:01:52.162-05:00thisgirl,
Thank you so much.thisgirl,<br />Thank you so much.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-28940230527956146802012-11-25T21:01:28.466-05:002012-11-25T21:01:28.466-05:00Serafina,
It was bliss, if bliss can have an under...Serafina,<br />It was bliss, if bliss can have an undercurrent of unmet need. And it sounds like it was hot at yoru house - and across the countryside too!greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-10883961100390932722012-11-25T20:57:14.667-05:002012-11-25T20:57:14.667-05:00HLA,
I do know exactly what you mean. I've ha...HLA,<br />I do know exactly what you mean. I've had that happen any number of times. I think it's a realization that so many people come to - i know i have again and again: the connection, the intimacy, the relationship is just better. And of course, please link away.<br />Thank you greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-18498031058509987702012-11-25T20:51:08.696-05:002012-11-25T20:51:08.696-05:00sfp,
Thank you so much. It is a good place. And ...sfp,<br />Thank you so much. It is a good place. And yea - in all seriousness, i don't think couples with a really healthy relationship resort to bartering for sex that way. This friend and her husband certainly aren't on solid ground. I just keep hoping they each get their heads out of their, well - i hope they wake up and figure something out.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-22378213580073915142012-11-25T20:47:32.806-05:002012-11-25T20:47:32.806-05:00Jake,
Yup - hot sex is definitely good - but the o...Jake,<br />Yup - hot sex is definitely good - but the overall improvement in our relationship is priceless. Thanks.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-67577763933396171692012-11-25T18:05:35.309-05:002012-11-25T18:05:35.309-05:00Wow - I thought this post was going in a different...Wow - I thought this post was going in a different direction from the title (I actually steeled myself a little when I clicked on it), but I love this - yes, we have a good friend that seems to withhold sex as a manipulation tool. That is just not the life I can lead.<br /><br />Thank you for this.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-24614149983254541922012-11-25T15:13:08.113-05:002012-11-25T15:13:08.113-05:00Yes- the subtle reminders - wonderfully put.
~fai...Yes- the subtle reminders - wonderfully put.<br /><br />~faithfulfaithfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00302360277876603758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-34282968860888109212012-11-25T13:09:54.601-05:002012-11-25T13:09:54.601-05:00I can so relate to this post.
Very excellently put...I can so relate to this post.<br />Very excellently put.this girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14792585064850606562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-91866371512181559032012-11-25T10:10:04.112-05:002012-11-25T10:10:04.112-05:00Sounds like you had a wonderful sub-bliss experien...Sounds like you had a wonderful sub-bliss experience. It's been really hot at out house lately also. Happy spanksgiving to you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05836027835171096558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-37808254450699080572012-11-25T09:53:21.018-05:002012-11-25T09:53:21.018-05:00I am always amazed when this happens to me... I th...I am always amazed when this happens to me... I think about how I want to wrote a post, and Poof. Someone else does and does it WAYYY better than I ever could. The D/s dynamic whether solely in the bedroom or in a sort of 24/7 dynamic has such far reaching benefits. It isn't just great sex or even more frequent sex. It binds people together in ways that I, personally have never experienced or heard of in my circle of friends. It creates a level of trust and willingness that just doesn't exist elsewhere, in any form, that I have ever seen.<br /><br />Thank you so much GG, for making this a million times easier for me LOL With your permission I'd like to link this post on my blog. You've captured my feelings on this perfectly.<br /><br />Also - the coming all over... Me toooo - it's my favourite thing ever. So so hot.HisLilAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09522576863961976546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-39457500916777845622012-11-25T09:36:30.305-05:002012-11-25T09:36:30.305-05:00This is a very nice post -- and you seem to be in ...This is a very nice post -- and you seem to be in a very good place.<br /><br />(and I always look at the withholding sex friends like they are aliens from space -- it's sort of strange to me -- as if I can't quite wrap my head around the idea of it -- or it's purpose)<br /><br />laughing<br /><br />sfpstrivingforpeacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13985424060354882831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-11417170652778462402012-11-25T09:08:34.927-05:002012-11-25T09:08:34.927-05:00You are so right about the D/s sexual connection e...You are so right about the D/s sexual connection extending benefits across so many other areas of a relationship! And I'd agree that it works both ways--both the Dominant and the submissive are much more attuned to each other and communication is greatly improved. This is, IMHO, one of the greatest benefits of D/s in my own marriage, even (possibly) greater than the hot sex...Jakehttp://leathercuffsandsilkenbonds.com/category/dominanceandsubmission/noreply@blogger.com