tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post4451364823391131342..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: if only i could hold onto itgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-75007249282843833612010-09-23T11:04:11.354-04:002010-09-23T11:04:11.354-04:00perhaps instead of having him interrupt you could ...perhaps instead of having him interrupt you could set a designated time he would call so you would be prepared and have something to look forward to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-42616352763714588242010-09-23T07:15:01.659-04:002010-09-23T07:15:01.659-04:00Ally,
I think that must be much harder - the frust...Ally,<br />I think that must be much harder - the frustration of having someone physically present but disconnected anyhow. Out of twon for work is somethign that needs to happen, i think that helps.<br /><br />Mamacrow,<br />Thats a great idea, especially how i speak to him on the phone. That's when i am the worst, if his call interrupts something i can be really rude.<br /><br />turiya,<br />That has to be a huge transition for you, actually for your whole family. it's a good thing though, right? good luck.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-24551473054164501802010-09-22T20:06:59.663-04:002010-09-22T20:06:59.663-04:00I know that feeling all too well... and Asha only ...I know that feeling all too well... and Asha only needs to be gone a short while for it to start. I think I'd be in the same state you're in though if he was gone for days at a time. I'm working on ways to maintain the submissive feeling on my own while he's at work, though... if I figure something out I'll let ya know.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />turiyaturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188596447013823792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-62278177817465677702010-09-22T16:53:58.491-04:002010-09-22T16:53:58.491-04:00could you have some kind of physical prompt/remind...could you have some kind of physical prompt/reminder? like a braclet or something that he puts on you when he leaves, and only removes when he gets back? sort of symbolic of him 'locking you up safe' sort of thing?<br />that might help keep you feeling submissive to him?<br />and he could insist you great him with certain phrases when you talk on the phone, to keep you respecful and loving?mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-49439800589081085312010-09-22T16:09:35.858-04:002010-09-22T16:09:35.858-04:00I can really related to what you are saying. Even ...I can really related to what you are saying. Even though Brad is rarely physically gone, when he is really tired he disconnects from the rest of us. It's hard for me to maintain the dynamic that feels good when I don't feel connected.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com