tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post5591723157336395674..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: what's real? what's important?greengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-199398374828547232010-08-28T08:41:20.074-04:002010-08-28T08:41:20.074-04:00Oh Elysia - I really don't want this sound lik...Oh Elysia - I really don't want this sound like we have it all figured out. That is sooo far from being the case. In this case i got way off track and i am glad that he just kept repeating his position enough for me to finally hear it.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-56375486285144857452010-08-26T21:26:34.349-04:002010-08-26T21:26:34.349-04:00Communication. It's a word I hear a lot aroun...Communication. It's a word I hear a lot around here, and it seems to fit into almost every marital issue. At least you hear him now, right? You've identified the part of yourself that you can change, rather than hope he changes. I'll let you know when we catch up.Elysiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15284256494178026716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-32349203475143296412010-08-26T08:00:10.527-04:002010-08-26T08:00:10.527-04:00Cassie,
Thanks. this journey seems to involve lot...Cassie,<br />Thanks. this journey seems to involve lots of turning.<br /><br />Mouse,<br />It it only now that i can even see the stuff i have left to let go of, and i imagine there is more behind that i can't even see yet.<br /><br />Sir J,<br />It is indeed.<br /><br />Serenity,<br />It does seem to go in fits adn starts, the lulls are sometimes good, sometimes very frustrating for me.<br /><br />Jz,<br />There is something humbling or even maybe embarrasing to discover we've been hearing what we want and not what was said or meant.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-9156518904079451182010-08-25T17:15:17.353-04:002010-08-25T17:15:17.353-04:00I had a similar revelation when I realized how I w...I had a similar revelation when I realized how I was so busy reading into BG's words that I wasn't hearing what he was actually saying.<br />It's a wonderful thing to identify and and start to rectify this kind of problem. But the process of getting there, and the way it makes you feel is not somethng I'd wish on anyone...Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-79791244396376480632010-08-25T14:40:52.142-04:002010-08-25T14:40:52.142-04:00Two steps forward, one back and "just plain o...Two steps forward, one back and "just plain ole married" are great descriptions of what it's been like for us lately as well. <br /><br />Our journeys seem so similar at times.Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06885913777602699200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-67748176112427481192010-08-25T11:11:37.148-04:002010-08-25T11:11:37.148-04:00be careful what you wish for...
and isn't gre...be careful what you wish for...<br /><br />and isn't great when you do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-74016702853436223822010-08-25T10:56:24.752-04:002010-08-25T10:56:24.752-04:00green girl,
it's not easy letting go all that...green girl,<br /><br />it's not easy letting go all that control over yourself. It was hard for me and I knew (well kinda had a better idea) what to expect, and what I thought I needed. <br /><br />Of course Omega made changes that I thought were too over the top. To say it just comes from trust is too easy, I think it comes from fear. Trusting him is easy...letting go that fear...not so much.<br /><br />Omega always reminds me that it's all babysteps. Ya sometimes you slide backward a bit, but you make up that ground.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11667539092853565037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-13890678401341757302010-08-25T09:50:32.919-04:002010-08-25T09:50:32.919-04:00A turning point gg! Excellent!
love, cassieA turning point gg! Excellent!<br /><br />love, cassiecassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17718294173898199890noreply@blogger.com