tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post6728818356328455518..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: hypotheticals and limitsgreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-59892251656904103932011-01-20T22:40:13.621-05:002011-01-20T22:40:13.621-05:00Sir J,
I know this is a valid point. I need to th...Sir J,<br />I know this is a valid point. I need to think more about the whole though, there are a lot of questions.<br /><br />Jz,<br />It was an intereting exercise. But it has opened a can of worms. We'll see...<br /><br />Hawk,<br />It would have to be a very careful dance. Some people dance beautifully - I never was able...<br /><br />Turiuya,<br />That distinction is a tough one - we're still working on it. But your point about experience is well taken.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-87488432206079789192011-01-19T20:32:09.624-05:002011-01-19T20:32:09.624-05:00It's weird, because Asha and I are open to pol...It's weird, because Asha and I are open to poly... and if he wants to share me with another Dom, I'm expected to submit (of course it would be someone we both know and trust, but still)... I have the same things going through my head. Sometimes it seems "fun" when it plays out in your head, but if it every became a reality could I actually submit to someone other than Asha? <br /><br />And the lines between "play" and "sex" can quite often be blurred... it's such a hard call. But I think Sir J and Jz are right in that we quite often tend to accomplish those things we thought we couldn't given time and experience... and then we usually look back and think... well what was I so worried about?<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />turiyaturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188596447013823792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-72508260321583043382011-01-19T20:02:41.439-05:002011-01-19T20:02:41.439-05:00Playing without intimacy is a delicate dance. My ...Playing without intimacy is a delicate dance. My Goddess is married and owns me with his consent...but their are definite boundaries on the intimacy. Not always easy to navigate...but it is doable, at least in my experience so far.Hawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06003798904615367734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-58294594589279914672011-01-19T17:33:12.518-05:002011-01-19T17:33:12.518-05:00An interesting mental exercise, that...!
I think ...An interesting mental exercise, that...!<br /><br />I think I would have to agree with Sir J that familiarity often makes things lose their their shock value - but I'm also totally with you that it's easy to wander into uncharted territory in the mind, when you *know* you don't ever really have to face the actual possibility. <br />Reality would probably induce hyperventilation but as a fantasy, it can be a lovely trip... especially if you take it together.<br /><br />("acchu")Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-20302501016868997352011-01-19T16:11:21.257-05:002011-01-19T16:11:21.257-05:00Perhaps you are right. I hate to say this but I a...Perhaps you are right. I hate to say this but I am "wondering" how many if any things you do today were mere fantasies 12 or 24 months ago that could never happen in real life???<br /><br />Many things seem implausible or even impossible the first time we consider them. As we do though, as we fantasize and gaze upon them they take tend to take on a less scary face and then a familiar one and finally we hardly notice them for the shock value they once were. This can be good and bad depending on what you do with it.<br /><br />Then again perhaps you are right.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com