tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post7288336552571651468..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: A taste of powergreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-62339712306226648942010-05-26T23:12:48.216-04:002010-05-26T23:12:48.216-04:00Turiya,
Yup, that is exactly it. Thanks.Turiya,<br />Yup, that is exactly it. Thanks.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-5795538130034372242010-05-26T18:52:56.823-04:002010-05-26T18:52:56.823-04:00I agree with Jz, he's not really giving up con...I agree with Jz, he's not really giving up control... nor is he giving it to you. He's just allowing you free reign for a time... just so he can lay back and enjoy. Asha does this... he loves to watch me pleasure him, but when he's ready to move on it comes to a very abrupt end... same as you described.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />turiyaturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-87367235567525390772010-05-26T06:35:02.593-04:002010-05-26T06:35:02.593-04:00David,
Thank you for sharing this. It's a bea...David,<br />Thank you for sharing this. It's a beautiful description.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-36547323997259205462010-05-25T22:59:01.623-04:002010-05-25T22:59:01.623-04:00i have answered part of this question before:
W I...i have answered part of this question before:<br /><br /><a href="http://dsinvegas.blogspot.com/2009/06/wiifm.html" rel="nofollow">W I I F M</a>Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943867226010869367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-6967250034635243772010-05-25T19:57:58.814-04:002010-05-25T19:57:58.814-04:00Elysia,
He does keep this particualr item on the m...Elysia,<br />He does keep this particualr item on the menu, I think he does liek it, but he decides when to order it or not. To be honest - I'll have to ask him about the taking initiative thing - I think he finds my hinting around annoying. Maybe i could find a better way. Thanks. <br /><br />DV,<br />I do understand that he lets me run with it; certainly he doesn't actually give up the control. I think what I was really getting at (and explained rather poorly) was the trust thing. I think it is important for me to know that he trusts me in this context, since flow of trust in this context is usually in the other direction.<br /><br />Jz,<br />You got it exactly - even though i said it so poorly. Thanks.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-28599881249327087032010-05-25T17:52:31.802-04:002010-05-25T17:52:31.802-04:00"he is finished letting me..."
As DV say..."he is finished letting me..."<br />As DV says, that's not giving up control, per se. It's enjoying us enjoying - as long as he <i>feels</i> like it. ;-)<br /><br />Kind of makes sense, tho'. If we're going to be in a power exchange, doesn't it serve everyone's purpose to let us experience power on occasion, in order to better understand what we're giving up when it's surrendered?Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-80207848242462201562010-05-25T10:47:09.663-04:002010-05-25T10:47:09.663-04:00Being on the Dom side, I have no issue with this. ...Being on the Dom side, I have no issue with this. I even have done this and find it enjoyable. From my side at least, I however view it as me still being in control. Especially the way you describe it. I'm just sitting back and letting you please me in the way you would like to do. you are free to go your own route. But I'm still over the situation. Just my opinion and view.<br /><br />DVDauntlessVitalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10351897046636302746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-59256574677612416482010-05-25T09:37:14.515-04:002010-05-25T09:37:14.515-04:00GG,
The taste of the "power of being on top&q...GG,<br />The taste of the "power of being on top" is something that my husband has been adamant about from the beginning. It must be there. He is happy to give me the control as well, and even likes me to take the initiative. It works for us.<br />Sounds like it works well for you two. Give and take, then take and give, right? <br />Thanks for sharing. I'm glad to know we aren't the only ones.<br />ElysiaElysiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15284256494178026716noreply@blogger.com