tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post7493364777739698883..comments2023-10-30T07:37:47.833-04:00Comments on whatiwonder: the little things are the most tellinggreengirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-86447554501838310282013-10-14T11:07:30.873-04:002013-10-14T11:07:30.873-04:00bleuame,
that is it isn't it - we do know what...bleuame,<br />that is it isn't it - we do know what is best for the entire family - that has been solved - sometimes i wonder why he doesn't get tired of fighting me to do what i want to do in the first place. thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-71070728082303873532013-10-14T11:04:19.316-04:002013-10-14T11:04:19.316-04:00disciplineandlove,
absolutely, one of the downside...disciplineandlove,<br />absolutely, one of the downsides, finding the balance between over thinking what should be simple, and not considering what i should be considering. I think this one will be a long term project. Thank you for the comment.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-12721217355675508402013-10-14T11:02:06.552-04:002013-10-14T11:02:06.552-04:00lil,
thank you - need to keep reminding myself th...lil,<br />thank you - need to keep reminding myself that it's what he wants - and how he wants me that matters... so many implications.....greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-62954527398940323822013-10-14T10:59:16.774-04:002013-10-14T10:59:16.774-04:00Jz,
I'm sorry it has taken so long to respond ...Jz,<br />I'm sorry it has taken so long to respond - i'm working my way back and catching up. And thank you - sometimes just more human than others, looking for the balance between accepting and giving in to not really trying.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-85459740248083486012013-10-10T09:54:39.655-04:002013-10-10T09:54:39.655-04:00Oh Green-girl,
Fraud?! Flawed?!
No. You're j...Oh Green-girl, <br />Fraud?! Flawed?!<br /> No. You're just someone who doesn't like the phone and was perhaps caught off guard. <br /> I can be horrible on the phone as well. <br />But really, the stay at home versus going to work debate...oye. Been there and we solved it and it isn't always easy. I think either way, you feel a certain amount of guilt . But what makes you the happiest? What makes him the happiest? What works for your life and what you are creating? <br /><br />*huge hugs*Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-30893752984047474462013-10-07T11:32:50.051-04:002013-10-07T11:32:50.051-04:00This is going to sound really complicated....
I t...This is going to sound really complicated....<br /><br />I think it's the hardest thing in the world to analyse your own motives and know how much of what you think is about you and your own wants and needs and how much is about his and other people's. To complicate things even more, there are definitely places where what you *want* crosses partially over into what you both need, but the end result of achieving it is made a little less by the underlying knowledge that you might have pressed it for it because it suited you better and not because it was the best thing.<br /><br />In a manner of speaking, because things were simpler when you didn't have to consider all this in your 'old life' all this complication and heart searching, at least until you get it all sorted out and put where it belongs, can be one of the downsides of TTWD.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954063955315002207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-14638560233668939742013-10-05T09:52:29.284-04:002013-10-05T09:52:29.284-04:00"whether i'm a fraud, or just flawed"..."whether i'm a fraud, or just flawed"<br />I should probably go Jz's route and point out your humanity, but I'm too busy nodding my head--that's a familiar sentiment to me. It is something that I often ask myself...Though if it helps any, I have never thought of you as either a fraud or flawed.<br />I'm gonna quit making sense here in a sec, so I'm just going to run off and consume more coffee...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3865362691562112420.post-4064360633516295202013-10-05T09:38:52.470-04:002013-10-05T09:38:52.470-04:00whether i'm a fraud, or just flawed.....
...o...<i>whether i'm a fraud, or just flawed.....</i><br /><br />...or just human...Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.com