Well - my husband does that some times - and one of the things that has always caught his attention has been women tied up outdoors. I mean tied up nekkid and exposed and available for beatings or shenanigans or whatever, tied along a path in the woods waiting for someone to pass by, that kind of thing.
That's all well and good, solidly in the realm of daydreams and fantasy and no chance of reality cuz he's a little bit (very little bit) into exposing me - but nowhere in our day to day lives is there a place or an opportunity for that kind of exposure.
Until there is.
We will be going away, for just the weekend, a quick trip to a place that checks all the boxes: very remote, no one else around, no kids!, lots and lots of trees, probably some rope, and did i mention very remote.
Shit.
Now i'm nervous.
I'm not scared- i'm nature girl here, i like most of the creatures other girls don't, snakes, bats, lizards... not afraid of critters or bugs (except centipedes - really, really do NOT like those), i can pee in the woods no problem, i'm not squeamish. I am a little concerned that it's hunting season and i don't picture him tying me to a tree nekkid and letting me keep the sexy blaze orange vest.
It's more that i'm worried i won't find the sexy in it, that my head will be stuck in the temperature, the mosquitoes, the poison ivy, the remote chance of someone else wandering by, the hunters... which isn't at all where i think he will want my head to be (maybe the remote chance of someone wandering by, but not the other stuff).
He's almost always able to get me to get my head where he wants it, so we'll see.
And there is this....
Don't stress about it, whatever will be will be. You may find it more exciting then you think but you won't know until you try.
ReplyDeleteAnd really at the end of the day as long as he enjoys it you will be happy.
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DeleteYou're right of course, all the way around. Thanks.
I AM SO JEALOUS. This is on my wish list.
ReplyDeleteJust like you, I know the reality could be waaay off from the fantasy, but I'd be willing to take that chance. ;)
Misty - we have had things that weren't up to the fantasy. But they've mostly still been awfully good in their own way. And it isn't often he gets to play with one of his fantasies. Thank you.
DeleteIt's totally fun! We've been able to do that in certain private locations. I think the worries about bugs or whatever will evaporate when the beatings start.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, brings back memories of him slapping the cooter gnats with the riding crop! Ew and ouch!
ancilla - that is good to know - the first part anyhow - that second part - yuk! Maybe it will be too cold for pesky bugs. And yes - he does seem to be able to make all other concerns evaporate when he wants to. Thanks.
DeleteWOW...I am not sure i could ever get my head in the right place.....but then i have been bare assed and stripped on a nature walk......just never tied. Sounds like you could find it exciting and....well you know...
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abby - hmm - i bet a bunch of money that if your Master wanted it - you would manage it well. All around, it should be a really good weekend. thank you.
DeleteI'm thinking this is a "never know until you try" kind of deal. I can completely understand your reservations - they'd be in my head too.
ReplyDeleteBuuuut… there's a hot there, too.
Maybe you can hang the sexy blaze orange vests on clothes lines circled in a wide perimeter…
(ok, I'll keep thinking…)
Jz - i'm sure you're right - It does all seem to go better when i let go and just go along. I'll ask about taping off a perimeter and see what he says - thanks!
DeleteAh!
ReplyDeleteWhen we were younger, we did these kind of scenes once or twice. Or maybe more.
This is so lovely, to feel that kind of nervous anticipation. I'm slightly envious.
In my case, I found it hard to keep focus because of all those outside things--the jute seemed extra itchy around bark, the bugs were an annoyance more than anything and though we never were stumbled upon by people, we did occasionally hear people in the vicinity. But yeah, like you say...it isn't my responsibility to worry about where my head is and keep it there---its his. So I did get past the distractions.
Hope you have so much fun! And enjoy it tons!
Bleu - the anticipation is wonderful - really - the opportunity to get away with him, however breifly - is wonderful. I think he will make what ever he decides upon work - so it should be good. Thank you.
DeleteA pillow and a blanket. In stylish orange.
ReplyDeleteOkay, two--that way you might actually get one :))
lil - what a great idea - sadly it was 39 degrees and pouring. That didn't quite fit the idea my husband had in his head for this experience - but i will keep my eyes open for orange blankets. Thanks!
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