Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Superfreak

Every once in awhile, after - you know - he will look at me and tell me how happy he is that i'm "His kinky girl."

It makes me feel a little weird, it's not at all the same as being "His girl" - partly it's the words, suddenly Superfreak is playing in my head....

Partly it's because i think i'm the lucky one: he jumped in and ran with it when i brought him some shocking and sordid fantasies after years of very plain vanilla.  I was sure i was risking his respect and his love and our marriage revealing myself at the time.  Instead he was willing to change and explore and find a new side of himself.  I'm so grateful for that.

He has a less dramatic take on it - "You mean I get to fuck you in whichever hole, however, where ever, and when ever i want...?  Yes - you're right, you are so lucky I agreed to that"








21 comments:

  1. *snort*
    But, as SP loves to remind me, "Men are simple creatures."
    ;-p

    fun.

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    1. It would seem so - yet somehow they make it work.

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  2. LOL....wonderful example of male vs female perspective. Master and i have had somewhat the same discussion.
    hugs abby

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    1. It does seem to be a boy/girl thing . He just rolls his eyes at my overthinking.

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  3. Lol, apparently perspectives vary widely depending which side of the gender spectrum one resides on.
    This sounds rather familiar.

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    1. Definitely a gender thing, and somehow that is very reassuring for me.

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  4. between laughing at HIS comment, and that damned songworm you've now planted in my head...omg..I'm a mess...giggling and head bobbing to the music inmy brain...

    :)

    nilla
    ps...i'm glad you're husband was into the idea. when I approached my wife about it she was *horrified*.

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    1. Nilla,
      That is why i count myself so lucky - i knew that was the risk, a big risk.

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  5. SUPERFREAKY!!! (UMMM, yeah .. thanks for that!)

    I like how men like to "romantize" things. I don't know if I will ever get enough of the term "all your holes" o.O

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    1. That term does have an effect, doesn't it?

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    1. Apparently for more than a few of us...

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  7. Aw. Yes, that "my girl" is such a lovely phrase to hear.

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    1. Welcome - and yes - "my girl" is big - "my kinky girl" needs the right context....

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  8. we say it differently but it means the same thing

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    1. Yes - i suppose that's true - same sentiment/whole different amount of processing behind it.

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  9. Love it....sounds like my Master...blunt and to the point...but i actually like that lol

    x

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    1. i'm learning to like it - and learning to try not to read into what he says cuz he doesn't work that way.

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  10. our recent exchange:
    him: I love you
    me: do you? even the kinky, freaky bits?
    him: Honey, those are your best bits!

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    1. Hmmm = that does sound familiar - there seems to be a trend. But it makes you feel good i bet, it does me.

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