Every once in awhile, after - you know - he will look at me and tell me how happy he is that i'm "His kinky girl."
It makes me feel a little weird, it's not at all the same as being "His girl" - partly it's the words, suddenly Superfreak is playing in my head....
Partly it's because i think i'm the lucky one: he jumped in and ran with it when i brought him some shocking and sordid fantasies after years of very plain vanilla. I was sure i was risking his respect and his love and our marriage revealing myself at the time. Instead he was willing to change and explore and find a new side of himself. I'm so grateful for that.
He has a less dramatic take on it - "You mean I get to fuck you in whichever hole, however, where ever, and when ever i want...? Yes - you're right, you are so lucky I agreed to that"
*snort*
ReplyDeleteBut, as SP loves to remind me, "Men are simple creatures."
;-p
fun.
It would seem so - yet somehow they make it work.
DeleteLOL....wonderful example of male vs female perspective. Master and i have had somewhat the same discussion.
ReplyDeletehugs abby
It does seem to be a boy/girl thing . He just rolls his eyes at my overthinking.
DeleteLol, apparently perspectives vary widely depending which side of the gender spectrum one resides on.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds rather familiar.
Definitely a gender thing, and somehow that is very reassuring for me.
Deletebetween laughing at HIS comment, and that damned songworm you've now planted in my head...omg..I'm a mess...giggling and head bobbing to the music inmy brain...
ReplyDelete:)
nilla
ps...i'm glad you're husband was into the idea. when I approached my wife about it she was *horrified*.
Nilla,
DeleteThat is why i count myself so lucky - i knew that was the risk, a big risk.
SUPERFREAKY!!! (UMMM, yeah .. thanks for that!)
ReplyDeleteI like how men like to "romantize" things. I don't know if I will ever get enough of the term "all your holes" o.O
That term does have an effect, doesn't it?
DeleteLol! Familiar, very familiar.
ReplyDeleteApparently for more than a few of us...
DeleteAw. Yes, that "my girl" is such a lovely phrase to hear.
ReplyDeleteWelcome - and yes - "my girl" is big - "my kinky girl" needs the right context....
Deletewe say it differently but it means the same thing
ReplyDeleteYes - i suppose that's true - same sentiment/whole different amount of processing behind it.
DeleteLove it....sounds like my Master...blunt and to the point...but i actually like that lol
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i'm learning to like it - and learning to try not to read into what he says cuz he doesn't work that way.
Deleteour recent exchange:
ReplyDeletehim: I love you
me: do you? even the kinky, freaky bits?
him: Honey, those are your best bits!
Hmmm = that does sound familiar - there seems to be a trend. But it makes you feel good i bet, it does me.
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