Him (whispered in my ear even though no one else is around): 11:15. I would like you showered, undressed, upstairs, ready -- physically and mentally.
Me (in my head but apparently also evident on my face): that's very soon, i can get ready physically, but mentally.....?
Me (out loud but quietly, sincerely): i don't know if i can get to the right place mentally
Him (as he walks out): then I will get you there, you just show up physically....