Monday, May 12, 2014

he said no

He's away - I had a little bit of time with no one else around........

I texted and asked - i even said please.........

And he said no......

That almost never happens..........

I told him i ran already today..........

He said, "Great!"  But No.....

Damn!

Asking is supposed to be the challenge in and of itself.....

He's not supposed to say no.

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Now i'm really anxious for him to get home.




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  1. I so rarely get a no...it really throws me for a loop when i do....anxious for Him to return..guess He accomplished His goal.
    hugs abby

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    1. Oh yes - mission very much accomplished. Thanks.

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  2. Oh greengirl, that's tough!
    And yes! The asking *is* the challenge.
    Hope you don't have too long to wait for him to come home :)

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    1. He made it back last night - and his tactics worked.

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  3. no so hard!!! But so luscious when he returns I guess :) ava x

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  4. I have a love/hate with those "nos". They are pretty rare here, but when it happens I get twice as anxious for it.

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    1. It is effective - and keeps me on my toes - though i think asking will be harder too now - though maybe that's part of the point as well.....

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  5. omg, my husband NEVER says no to the point where I sometimes resentfully wonder what's the point of me asking if he's never going to say no.. I kinda want to him to occasionally say no! In fact, often lately he doesn't even wait for me to screw up my courage to ask and just heads me off at the pass by giving me permission, and I hate that even more!

    I know I should be grateful, I'm sure there'll come a time when he says no and ghasts my flabber!

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    1. I know exactly what you mean - i need the box but i need the box to be strong enough to kick at it also; that is what makes it effective. I'm learning my body and my psyche - and he is too - it's odd to be the subject of the experiments, but - I'm His to play with - however that works out.

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  6. Ah, but for sure you know he has the control firmly in his hands. Hope he gets home soon.

    sofia

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  7. Do you need "stomp on your libido" tips?
    ;-)

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    1. Hmmmmm - I'll ask him if that would be of interest to him and get back to you. Thanks.

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  8. i dunno, GG, but this made me totally laugh out loud (it was a sympathetic laugh if that helps!)

    nilla

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    1. Oh nilla. I know he has total control of your O's. And isn't afraid to use it. And, can I say, I'm just not sure how you stay good natured about it.

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