When one's husband/master gestures, out of the blue, in the evening, for you to join him in the bedroom,
and you had mentioned suggestively, earlier in the day, that you are rather worked up and in the mood for some serious one on one,
and you're also now on edge because of news about a deeply hopeless situation that you received earlier that evening,
And you're head hurts and your muscles are on knots because of it....
Apparently, when he gestures, and then you note that his intentions involve a plug, and not any of the fun/pain/lovely sensation things you had kinda been wishing about all day,
The correct response is not to whine or joke about what you had been hoping for,
Nor to scoff, even politely, at what he is offering/requiring,
Apparently, the right response is, "thank you," or "thank you, Sir," or even, "thank you for not choosing the largest one, Sir."