Friday, September 20, 2013

Apparently

When one's husband/master gestures, out of the blue, in the evening, for you to join him in the bedroom,

and you had mentioned suggestively, earlier in the day, that you are rather worked up and in the mood for some serious one on one,

and you're also now on edge because of news about a deeply hopeless situation that you received earlier that evening,

And you're head hurts and your muscles are on knots because of it....

Apparently, when he gestures, and then you note that his intentions involve a plug, and not any of the fun/pain/lovely sensation things you had kinda been wishing about all day,

The correct response is not to whine or joke about what you had been hoping for,

Nor to scoff, even politely, at what he is offering/requiring,

Apparently, the right response is, "thank you," or "thank you, Sir," or even, "thank you for not choosing the largest one, Sir."





14 comments:

  1. Sorry you didn't get what you want but I can't help but to laugh a little.

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    1. Misty,
      Want/need - its so easy to get tangled up... thanks.

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  2. This was exactly us a couple of weeks ago.
    Yeah....that correct response thing.

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    1. Bleuame,
      i have a feeling i'll be learning this one my whole life.

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  3. There is SO much to learn...

    ;-p

    (oh well. we signed up for it.)

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    1. Jz,
      You are so right - and sometimes i feel like i have no good idea what i signed up for - other times is's so clear. thanks.

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  4. What a delightful little prism of a reflection.

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    1. RD (if i may),
      Thank you. I think it's the little moments that make a big impact.

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  5. the unasked and unanswered question is did his way work?

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    1. Sir J - of course it did - he has that exasperating ability to do what is needed and not what i think i want.

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  6. i'm sorry...

    i'm really sorry....

    because I am SURE the proper, subsister response to this is "oh my yes, poor dear"...yet all I can do is giggle helplessly...

    *wiping laughter tears*

    I'm sorry that you are facing a situation that has you tied up in knots...but I'm VERY happy that you have a Sir that knows just how to tie you up in a much better headspace (tho your ass may NOT agree!)

    Hugs...

    nilla

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    1. nilla,
      No - no sympathy called for - all joking aside - he does know me and he does what is good for me - even if i am a brat about it at the time. We've been together a very long time - it's an odd thing - we are easy and light and wicked to each other often; that didn't disappear, but i trip over it sometimes.

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